Deeper Commentary
Jdg 21:1 Now the men of Israel had sworn in Mizpah: Not one of us 
	will give his daughter to a Benjamite as wife- 
	Here we have another repetition of theme, that of unwise oaths. For 
	Jephthah had done the same. And it resulted at very best in his daughter 
	going unmarried. We think too of Joshua's over hasty oath to the Gibeonites. 
	We are to discern the hand of God in all these things and to learn from the 
	repeated mistakes of His people as recorded in the Biblical record.
	We are surely intended to contrast this with how the Israelites 
	had freely given their daughters to marry Gentiles. Their oath is therefore 
	hypocritical. It is religious extremism, not spirituality. They treat their 
	own brethren as if they are worse than Gentiles. 
	
	Jdg 21:2 The people came to Bethel where they sat until evening before God, 
	raising their voices and weeping bitterly- 
	They had likewise sat before God, i.e. before His manifestation and 
	presence in the ark and priesthood, when they had enquired why they had been 
	defeated twice when fighting the Benjamites. It was tears all around, as 
	they began to realize the extreme folly of what they had done. But it was 
	grief they themselves had brought about. Their weeping before Yahweh recalls 
	Joshua's after the defeat at Ai. The great victory they had just won was in 
	reality a defeat for Israel. Because in conflict between brethren, there can 
	only be losers. Any apparent victory is in fact a further loss.
	Jdg 21:3 They said, Yahweh, the God of Israel, why has this happened to 
	Israel, that there should be today one tribe missing from Israel?- 
	If Yahweh was indeed Israel's God, then to destroy a part of Israel was 
	  clearly to have sinned against Him. This is what we do whenever we 
	  separate or effectively cut off a part of the body of Christ. As noted on 
	  Jud. 20:23, the request was really its own answer. Should they fight 
	  against "our brothers"? Obviously not. You do not fight and kill your 
	  brothers. Why has this happened? Because they had done it. So often our 
	  prayers reveal their own answer. We see this in David's prayers as 
	  recorded in the Psalms. Some of them end up providing the answer to the 
	  opening question or struggle. This is one advantage of praying out loud, 
	  of verbalizing our questions to God. The answer sometimes becomes apparent 
	  just through the process of verbalizing our thoughts. 
They ask the God of Israel why one tribe has almost perished from Israel. They imply that Israel's God should preserve Israel. Yet it was they who had dismembered Israel. This is a classic case of blaming God for what is clearly man's fault.
"Why did God let this happen?" is a common question today. But the answer is simply that man made it happen. The history here is a helpful window onto the question. There is no recorded answer of God to their question, as there isn't today. But the humble, reflective mind will immediately see the answer as soon as the question is framed. It's not a case of God letting things happen, but of man making bad things happen. In this case, Yahweh confirmed them in their course of action, by saying that Judah should go up first and be destroyed by Benjamin.
	Jdg 21:4 Next day the people rose early and built an altar and offered burnt 
	offerings and peace offerings- 
	Peace offerings were offered in times of Israel's sadness and 
	  defeat (Jud. 20:26; 21:4), as well as in celebration. In our traumas of life, we need to remember 
	  that the only thing that matters is our peace with God, the joyful fact 
	  that we have nothing separating us. As Israel made their peace offerings 
	  at those times, so we too should consider the possibility of breaking 
	  bread, perhaps alone, as we meet the desperate traumas of our lives. 
But as in Jud. 20:26, we note that 
	  
	  Jdg 21:5 They asked, Who is there among all the tribes of Israel who 
	  didn’t come up to the assembly before Yahweh? For they had taken a solemn 
	  oath that anyone who didn’t come up to Yahweh to Mizpah should surely be 
	  put to death- 
	  The implication of Jud. 20:3 ["The 
	  Benjamites heard that the Israelites had gone up to Mizpah"] is that
	  the Benjamites weren't 
	  represented at the Mizpah conference. And Israel had threatened death to 
	  anyone who didn't come to this gathering. So the Benjamites stood 
	  condemned to death just because they didn't attend a meeting. Just as some 
	  have been disfellowshiped for "long continued absence" from a church. This 
	  is not at all Biblical, and the attitude of the Israelites here was not at 
	  all in accord with the Law of Moses. Nor did they take any advice from God 
	  about this; they simply promised death to any who didn't attend their 
	  gathering. Perhaps this was why they thought they were justified in 
	  slaying the Benjamites- because they had broken the Israelites' self 
	  declared law and commandment to come to Mizpah. 
	  Jdg 21:6 The Israelites grieved for Benjamin their brother. There is one 
	  tribe cut off from Israel this day- 
	  Their requests to God for guidance about attacking Benjamin had 
	  featured the phrase "our brother". They ought to have followed their 
	  conscience toward God, and their sense that any murder of a brother must 
	  be wrong. Instead the power of groupthink and transferring the guilt of 
	  their own sins onto Benjamin was stronger than that. And now they grieve 
	  for what they had done. Their exclusion and cutting off of their brother 
	  had in fact diminished all Israel. And this is what we do to the body of 
	  Christ by cutting off parts of it; it is as Paul puts it, as bizarre as 
	  cutting off our own limbs. The body will not function well without those 
	  limbs. I suggested on Jud. 20:2 that initially, the other 
	  Israelites wanted to destroy Benjamin in order to take their territory. 
	  But now they apparently genuinely repent. We see how even in the depths of 
	  unspirituality, there is still an element of conscience. And that is the 
	  theme of Judges 13-21, that flesh and Spirit were hopelessly mixed in 
	  God's people at this time. So mixed that the mere presence of 'Spirit' 
	  element did not at all guarantee their salvation. We think of the rejected 
	  in the Lord's parables addressing him as "Lord, Lord"; and the foolish 
	  virgins eager to enter His Kingdom when it was all too late. And yet 
	  Jabesh Gilead was in Manasseh. By making Benjamites intermarry with 
	  another tribe, they were weakening Benjamin's claim to the land.
As noted on :3, God was silent in response to their enquiries. They don't get it- His silence was to elicit within them the awareness that it was their fault, not His, and their questioning of Him was inappropriate. They fail to get this, and so go ahead in yet more folly. Just as man does so often. Their efforts to save their brother will involve murder, kidnap and forced marriage- showing that their apparent 'love' and 'repentance' concerning Benjamin was fake. And Israel will do these things against Jabesh Gilead, probably the only city which had responded rightly to their demand to go and fight Benjamin.
	Jdg 21:7 How shall we provide wives for those who remain, since we have 
	sworn by Yahweh that we will not give them our daughters as wives?- 
	  It seems the idea was that if the virgins were stolen and 
	  forced to marry, then the oath not to freely give daughters as wives was 
	  still kept. Even though it involved kidnapping, forced marriage, and the 
	  murder of many innocent people, including children. All these gross sins 
	  were done in order to keep a foolish and hasty oath. The appearance was 
	  that they were careful to avoid the sin of breaking an oath. But they 
	  commit far greater sins in order to avoid that sin. The real issue was 
	  that they didn't want Benjamites to marry their daughters. Again we see 
	  how badly things go when there is no personal devotion to Divine 
	  principle, and rather a desire to appear religiously correct in order to 
	  justify what man wants to do naturally. Another attraction of stealing the 
	  virgins was that there would then no issue about the husbands needing to 
	  pay the usual bride price.
Here we have one of several examples of men caught up in unwise oaths. We think of Darius promising to slay anyone who prayed to anyone apart from himself; of Herod vowing to do anything for the daughter of Herodias, including murdering John the Baptist. They could get out of their oaths by humility... but they didn't. In this case, the easiest option would have been to just repent of their oath and let the remaining Benjamites marry women from other tribes. But for all their apostacy, they had a legalistic mindset. And there was a pride factor in their society when it came to not following through on an oath. As many do today, they went to the most bizarre lengths to get around the oath they had made, and to save face. And yet their bizarre method of getting around it was all the same unethical, and involved the massacre of yet more of their brethren at Jabesh Gilead, and the kidnapping of girls from Shiloh. It would have been far better to humble themselves and retract their rash oath. We see this lesson repeated in the rulers who swore too hastily, resulting in Daniel and John the Baptist suffering greatly- just because the rulers were too proud to take back their words.
	  Jdg 21:8 They asked, Which of the tribes of Israel didn’t come up to 
	  Yahweh to Mizpah? They found that none from the camp from Jabesh Gilead 
	  came to the assembly- 
	  We note that they had not attempted to murder these people because 
	  they had not come to the meeting at Mizpah. And yet they apparently used 
	  Benjamin's absence from that meeting [when it was clearly biased against 
	  them from the start] as justification for slaying Benjamin (:5). So 
	  clearly the whole miserable, quasi legal process was set up from the start 
	  in order to cut off Benjamin. And this is how church politics so often 
	  goes, when there is a predetermined desire to cut someone off. 
	   
	  Jdg 21:9 For when the people were counted, none of the inhabitants of 
	  Jabesh Gilead were there- 
	  We wonder why Jabesh did not attend. Perhaps they like Benjamin had 
	  seen through the manic feeding frenzy of the groupthink, and had objected 
	  to the absolutely unBiblical judgment being taken- with so much depending 
	  on just one questionable witness, with Dt. 17:6,7 being so totally 
	  ignored. See on Jud. 20:13. And yet still Israel were impenitent for all 
	  that; and they were to go ahead and punish Jabesh with a massacre, killing 
	  even innocent children, because of it. The implication is that absolutely 
	  every town of Israel outside of Benjamin was represented in this great 
	  assembly, including the totally apostate people of Laish of Dan (Jud. 
	  17,18). Only Jabesh didn't come. This is the extent to which the people 
	  were caught up in a shark tank feeding frenzy of judgmentalism, self 
	  congratulation and hatred against their brethren. These things happen 
	  today; brethren are demonized and hated on a mass scale on flimsy grounds 
	  by brethren who are only as weak as themselves. It is a basic 
	  psychological reaction, the unchecked movement of the flesh rather than of 
	  the Spirit. 
	  Jdg 21:10 The congregation sent twelve thousand valiant fighting men and 
	  commanded them: Go and put the inhabitants of Jabesh Gilead to the sword, 
	  including the women and children- 
	  The idea was, a thousand from each tribe, following the principle of 
	  Num. 31:4. Yet they were following an isolated Biblical precedent in a 
	  very misplaced way- for they were going to massacre innocent people, all 
	  because they were too proud to accept they had made a foolish oath (see on 
	  :7). We see here a common human feature- of apparent obedience to the 
	  letter of the law, whilst breaking the obvious spirit of the law. We think 
	  of the Jews being scrupulous to be ritually clean for the Passover- at 
	  which they crucified God's Son. It's a case of having a plank in our own 
	  eye whilst noticing the splinter in the eye of another.   
	  Jdg 21:11 This is what you are to do: kill every male and every woman who 
	  is not a virgin- 
	  Whilst it is not recorded that this was done, this massacre of their 
	  own brethren was necessitated by their refusal to humble themselves and 
	  retract their oaths, as discussed on :7. They had not really learned the 
	  depth of their sin- for here they were advocating the cutting off of yet 
	  more of their brethren in a massacre, for the sake of undoing the damage 
	  done by cutting off their brethren from Benjamin. They had not learned the 
	  lesson.   
More exactly, “You shall devote to utter destruction” or “cherem” (Lev. 27:28). They were also alluding to the uttermost destruction of the Midianites in Num. 31:7,17. But they failed to perceive that they are again treating their own brethren as Gentiles.
	  Jdg 21:12 They found among the inhabitants of Jabesh Gilead four hundred 
	  young virgins who had not known man by lying with him, and they brought 
	  them to the camp at Shiloh in the land of Canaan- 
	  This may imply they did not in fact destroy Jabesh as they had 
	  promised to Yahweh to do, and as the elders had told them to do. The town 
	  was still inhabited at the time of 1 Sam. 11:1. It seems they were very 
	  selective in their obedience, and yet claimed such utter and careful 
	  loyalty to Yahweh. The record continually demonstrates their hypocrisy and 
	  ignorance of true spirituality, whilst having a knowledge and apparent 
	  devotion to isolated parts of God's law. The same is seen amongst so many 
	  professing to be God's people today. Yet "saved alive" in :14 implies they 
	  did indeed massacre the town. The description of the conflict with Jabesh 
	  as a "war" in :22 suggests that there was indeed bloodshed, probably on 
	  both sides; and yet despite that, the required number of young female 
	  captives weren't taken. So all the bloodshed and "war" just didn't achieve 
	  the desired end anyway. The logical process in thought behind the 
	  decisions taken in all this appears very lacking in wisdom. Clearly they 
	  did not progress on God's advice, but only on their own.  
The treatment of these women is not far from rape. The rape of two women by Benjamites leads to the effective rape of 400 women by the rest of Israel, and kidnapping and forcible marriage of another 200. This is how out of proportion was Israel's response.
	  Jdg 21:13 The whole congregation sent an offer of peace to the Benjamites 
	  who were in the rock of Rimmon- 
	  They 'proclaimed peace', using the same phrase as in Dt. 20:10: "When 
	  you draw near to a city to fight against it, proclaim peace to it". But 
	  the Israelites did this to the few remaining Benjamites after 
	  they had massacred most of them (Jud 21:13). This was typical of how 
	  Israel at this time were taking fragments of God's law and applying them, 
	  but absolutely out of context. Whilst they disregarded the majority of the 
	  Law, both in letter and spirit. And we see this in the wider Christian 
	  movement. Bits and pieces of Divine principle are used in a misplaced way, 
	  when the majority of God's revelation and will is ignored.  
	  Jdg 21:14 So then Benjamin returned and they gave them the women whom they 
	  had saved alive from Jabesh Gilead, but they weren’t enough for them-
	  
	  "Saved alive" implies they did indeed massacre the town. They had 
	  clearly had a bad conscience about fighting against Benjamin their 
	  "brother". But they fail to really grasp why that was wrong. For in the 
	  flush of final victory against Benjamin, they now go and do exactly the 
	  same sin of murdering their brothers. And in this case, for no reason 
	  other than that Jabesh hadn't come up to some kangaroo court they had set 
	  up to judge Benjamin. They were acting absolutely against God's will and 
	  without any seeking of His guidance. And all because, as discussed on :7, 
	  they lacked the faith to let God resolve the issue of the remnant of 
	  Benjamin having no wives; and because they lacked the humility to take 
	  back their oath not to let their daughters marry Benjamites.  
	  Jdg 21:15 The people grieved for Benjamin because Yahweh had made a gap in 
	  the tribes of Israel- 
	  AV "repented them", they had a change of mind. But this is not 
	  necessarily the same as perceiving their own moral wrong. There is no 
	  reference to their seeking counsel from God as to whether or not to 
	  massacre yet more of their brethren in Jabesh, which was apparently of 
	  another tribe and east of the Jordan [presumably it was near the wadi 
	  Jabesh which is east of Jordan]. The people had not asked counsel of God 
	  about how to judge the matter. They had all eagerly condemned Gibeah to 
	  destruction, without referring to God, and in studied disobedience to His 
	  word (see on Jud. 20:13). Yet having made their own judgment, they then 
	  made a great show of asking His advice as to which tribe should lead the 
	  assault, or, should attack Gibeah first (Jud. 20:18). Yet God responded to 
	  their request. He said Judah should go first. He wanted to use this 
	  incident to punish Israel, as well as Benjamin. And as so often, His 
	  judgments are in terms of brethren destroying each other, rather than Him 
	  doing it directly Himself. See on Jud. 20:7. It was Yahweh who made a 
	  breach in Israel over this matter. He worked through it all. It was His 
	  way of judging His apostate, hypocritical people. The same word is used of 
	  His making a breach upon Uzzah, in judgment (2 Sam. 6:8). A breach from 
	  Yahweh is a judgment for sin (Is. 30:13; Ez. 22:30 s.w.). 
	  Division and 
	  conflict amongst God's children is therefore somehow of Him- but it is His 
	  judgment upon the community. Alternatively we can 
	  read this as the people still not facing up to the enormity of their sins. 
	  It was they who had made a breach in Israel, but they blame it on 
	  Yahweh. The ambiguity is intentional. They had made the breach, and blamed 
	  God for it [see on :3]. And yet He had confirmed them in what they really 
	  wanted to do, which was to dismember Israel. Just as  whether the 
	  Levite murdered his concubine is ambiguous.
Jdg 21:16 Then the elders of the congregation said, How shall we provide 
	wives for those who remain, since the women are destroyed out of Benjamin?-
	  
	  A wife is "from the Lord", not from purely human device. Massacring a 
	  town to steal their virgin daughters, and then kidnapping girls from a 
	  Passover dance... is all the way of the flesh. We see how misguided were 
	  these people, partly concerned with the Divine concept of raising up seed 
	  for their brother, and yet with no basic moral backbone at all. They would 
	  have been better to have faith that God would provide, in His own 
	  wonderful way- rather than massacring Jabesh and kidnapping girls.  
	  Jdg 21:17 They said, There must be an inheritance for the surviving 
	  Benjamites so that a tribe will not be blotted out from Israel- 
	  They are arguing from the basis of the levirate law, that brothers 
	  must somehow ensure that seed is raised up to their brother in the case of 
	  death. But, as noted on :16, they are focusing upon just one aspect of 
	  Divine truth, and ignoring the wider moral teachings of the Mosaic law and 
	  indeed of basic ethics and morality. "There must be an 
	  inheritance..." again reflects their legalistic mind, driven by a devotion 
	  to quasi logic to do things which were plain wrong on every count. An 
	  inheritance is "of the Lord", just as a wife is (:16); their attempt to 
	  play God in all this just made things far worse. And we must 
	  ponder whether our own spirituality is no more, at times, than out of 
	  context obedience to a few Biblical commands, whilst our flesh runs 
	  rampant and we refuse to humble ourselves beneath the essence of a truly 
	  spiritual life. 
	  Jdg 21:18 We can’t give them wives from our daughters since the Israelites 
	  have taken this oath saying, ‘Cursed be he who gives a wife to Benjamin’-
	  
	  I discussed on :7 how if they had humbled themselves and retracted 
	  their oaths, then they would not have needed to do the bizarre and sinful 
	  things which they did- massacre of Jabesh Gilead and kidnapping young 
	  girls. Their legalistic mindset is incredible; and yet they themselves 
	  were far astray from Yahweh themselves, and this was why they had been 
	  punished at the hands of the Benjamites, losing 40,000 men.  
	  Jdg 21:19 They said, Look, there is an annual feast of Yahweh in Shiloh, 
	  which is on the north of Bethel, east of the highway from Bethel to 
	  Shechem, and south of Lebonah- 
	  If the feast involved dancing (:21) then it was likely the feast of 
	  the Passover, with the girls replicating the dancing of Miriam and the 
	  women. The exact geographical description is given so that the Benjamites 
	  knew precisely where to go. But they ought to have been celebrating 
	  Yahweh's deliverance of His people by grace, rather than using it as an 
	  opportunity to kidnap wives for themselves. But 
	  again this is mixing the flesh and the Spirit. The girls were to be 
	  kidnapped during a feast to Yahweh, without consequence. But the Canaanite 
	  tribes also allowed bride kidnapping during feasts. They were following a 
	  pagan practice. And it has been observed that "The Pokot people of East 
	  Africa permit kidnapping unmarried women during the summer solstice 
	  ceremonial cycle".     
	Jdg 21:20 They instructed the Benjamites: Go and lie in wait in the 
	vineyards- 
	  This bizarre idea of grabbing young unmarried females was all 
	  necessitated by the impenitence of the Israelites and their refusal to 
	  humble themselves and retract their oath, as discussed on :7.  
	  Jdg 21:21 and watch. When the daughters of Shiloh come out to join in the 
	  dances, then rush out of the vineyards and each of you catch a wife from 
	  the girls of Shiloh and go to the land of Benjamin- 
	  The language of lying in wait in ambush and then rushing forward upon 
	  the unsuspecting is the language of how the Benjamites had finally 
	  captured Gibeah, and how Israel had captured Ai. Again, we see the 
	  misplaced idea of appealing to past precedent in God's dealings with His 
	  people. They wished to follow some aspects of God's ways in the past, 
	  whilst ignoring the vast majority of His teaching, even on a most basic 
	  moral level. And we wonder whether the majority of those identifying as 
	  'Christian' at this point in world history are not similar. 
	  
	  Jdg 21:22 When their fathers or their brothers come to complain to us, we 
	  will say to them, ‘Allow them to do this because we didn’t get wives for 
	  them in the war- 
	  The war is presumably the war against Jabesh of :12. The way it is 
	  called a "war" suggests the people of Jabesh fought back. There would have 
	  been yet more bloodshed, and it seems there were fewer virgin women 
	  captured than the Israelites had initially imagined. "Allow them" 
	  is literally 'show us grace'. Like many today, they spoke of grace with no 
	  idea of what it really means. They use the grace argument when the whole 
	  story shows that nobody knows anything about grace. Rather this is stilted 
	  legalism and yet further abuse of people. In response to the grabbing of 
	  one woman, the concubine, they are going to grab hundreds of women against 
	  their will. And to kidnap a person was a capital offence (Ex. 21:16).
You didn’t give them to them, so you are not guilty’- 
	  Perhaps they mean 'Not guilty of breaking the oath not to give your 
	  daughter in marriage to Benjamites'. But the way of humility would have 
	  been to simply ask God to forgive them for a rash oath, or to just leave 
	  it all to God to decide, with faith He would somehow work it out. But when 
	  there is no human answer visible, then we tend to abandon faith in God and 
	  go for these kinds of bizarre human ways of resolving things.
Or the idea may have been that to give a daughter in marriage to a man of another tribe was a sin. But as the daughters had been taken away forcibly, it wouldn't count as a sin. We note their extreme legalism. And yet as legalists often do, they seriously contradicted themselves. For in this case, it would have been a sin for Benjamites to be marrying women from another tribe. So their solution to the problem was only leading people into sin. There seems no direct statement in the law of Moses that intermarriage amongst the tribes was a sin, although the implication of the principles of inheritance amongst the tribes was that it was far from ideal.
	  Jdg 21:23 So that is what the Benjamites did. They took wives for each of 
	  them from the girls who danced, and carried them off. They returned to 
	  their inheritance, rebuilt the cities and lived in them- 
	  See on :22. Carrying them off implies to captivity. They were 
	  treating these Israelite girls as prey, taken in some Divinely sanctioned 
	  war. But God had not been consulted, and was not in any of this.
	  Jdg 21:24 Then the Israelites departed each to his tribe and family- 
	  This is perhaps stating the obvious but in order that we imagine them 
	  returning home, with only tales of woe and not glorious victory. For they 
	  had lost 40,000 of their own men, and slain a huge number of their 
	  brethren both from Jabesh and all Benjamin. And arranged the kidnap of 
	  innocent girls from their families. Not much to boast about to their 
	  families. And so the point is made, that in conflict between brethren, 
	  there are only shameful losers.
	Jdg 21:25 In those days there was no king in Israel; each man did that which 
	was right in his own eyes- 
	  This implies that the book of Judges as we have it was edited, under 
	  Divine inspiration, some time after Israel began to have kings. Perhaps 
	  during the exile, when again they had no king; and therefore the book 
	  becomes a warning to the exiles about likely apostacy. The lament may be 
	  that there was no authority, no teacher, no modelling of Godly living; 
	  because every man did what was right in his own eyes, rather than doing 
	  what was right in the eyes of Yahweh. For so often we read of Israel being 
	  condemned for doing what was wrong in His eyes. This is 
	  clear enough 
	  evidence that 'just follow your heart' is poor advice. For what is right 
	  in our own eyes results in the Godless confusion of what we find now at 
	  the time of the Judges. However it could be argued that having no human 
	  king was a good thing; for God didn't want them to have one. And therefore 
	  a situation where everyone judges things by their own judgment is in fact 
	  good; the problem was that the people didn't base their view upon God's 
	  word, His "eyes" or perspective, but solely upon their own unenlightened 
	  opinions.